Why won t my girlfriend have sex with me

We have been together for five years and were once sexually active and adventurous, but my partner has become closed off. We now have sex once every five to six weeks. She hates talking about our sex life and her sexuality, which I find worse than the lack of sex. Your girlfriend is actually communicating very well about sex — nonverbally.

Imagine yourself lying next to an incredibly beautiful woman. Just looking at her gorgeous naked body makes your heart thump and the fact that you can call this godsend creatur e your girlfriend makes you cry tears of joy. She is smart, she is beautiful and she has the most beautiful combination of breasts and ass that you have ever seen. Your balls already turned into an unhealthy blue, you jerk off to porn every night and every morning you wake up with an erection with which you could stab a moose. She lies next to you pointing her juicy little ass towards you, without even thinking about opening her mouth or spreading her legs for you.

Those first several months of a new relationship are bliss: You can't keep your hands off each other. You're having sex once, twice, three times a day. You're having crazy sex, public sex, porno sex, hair-pulling sex. It's orgasm after orgasm and your brain is oozing those endorphins that make you feel in love and utterly alive.

But first, an email from a guy who is going through this exact same problem. About six months ago my girlfriend started making excuses every time I tried to kiss her or get close to her. She would tell me that she was busy or that she was feeling tired. I tried doing things around the house to make her feel better and less stressed.