Is he unhappy? Is he having an affair? Life can get hectic, and as a result, sex can hit the backburner. Especially if you have kids, it might not be top of mind for him to come home from work and initiate sex right away. The key here is normalizing the fact that your priorities are bound to change throughout the course of your lifetimes.
Have a question? Email her at dear. My husband and I have been married for 30 years and have a mostly happy, friendly, and supportive relationship. His interest in sexual relations declined after our children were born and came to a full stop five years ago.